We all have our own struggles. Man was born to struggle and maybe the reason is to allow us to level up and go higher to the next experience of our own greatness.
Therefore, honor the struggle, honor the hardships of getting better and stop hating the hardships of getting better.
If you constantly apply negative energy to the process, the process will create something negative. Thats logical right?
So, why not enjoy the journey, honor the difficulties and see them as character challenges that build you not blunt you.
These obstacles /challenges are put here to forge a better me not to diminish me and that is a much healthier mindset to have.
All those hard things were placed there for you to get stronger. And thats it.
Anything you pour hate on just grows. If you hate taking out the garbage guess what taking out the garbage becomes? A monster. Why? Because you applied hate to it. So change your words and thoughts and then youll change your experience of any garbage that arises in your life.
I hate bringing that topic up with my spouse. Well, with that attitude you will definitely make that conversation more difficult.
In the gym, all those heavyweights are the path to getting stronger. All those heavy things youre dealing with are either going to break you or make you stronger. So again, honor the struggle.
When you want to transform your struggles into learning opportunities, ask yourself the following 5 questions and make sure you answer them. And get creative while answering them.
1. What is great about this problem?
2. What is Not perfect yet?
3. What am I willing to Do to make it the way I want it?
4. What am I willing to No longer do in order to make it the way I want it?
5. How can I Enjoy the process while taking the necessary actions to make it the way I want it?
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