When you let go you let in
It’s just a bunch of thoughts When we realize that all we are holding onto in our mind is just a bunch of thoughts, it becomes much easier to let go of them. When this happens, we become a receptacle for the new and the fresh. Endless possibilities arise when you let go of the […]
Great expectations can lead to great limitations in any relationship
Great expectations are not always so great Great expectations are not so great when we are overly attached and so committed to them. When I operate with the expectation that you have to do something to make me happy, it’s often a recipe for disaster because you’re not always going to do it exactly […]
Happiness for no reason
Happiness for no reason I’ll never forget what happened a short while after learning the principles behind a clear mind; It was an early morning around December 2014 and I was sitting in my office all alone and getting things ready on my computer for my work day and then all of a sudden, I just […]
The Missing Piece in Relationships
Why is it that couples break up? Because they’re unhappy together. Well, you might be thinking, “great point Aron, and how insightful is this that I should even bother with this post?” The incorrect assumption is that your partner is supposed to make you happy and then you’ll both live happily ever after. […]
Mistakes don’t define you they refine you
The pain of the past Mistakes are only carried through time via a thought Mistakes can often paralyze us in moving forward with our lives but it doesnt have to be that way when we realize that the pain of the past mistakes is only carried through time into my present experience via a thought. […]
Intimacy
INTIMACY – Into me see – To connect with another person, you really need to be able to see into me, and I have to be able to see into you. You have to look into where they are and focus completely on them, putting your own personal agendas on the side. Seeing DeeplyWhat does […]
The Great race where we fall into the comparison trap
The Great Race where we fall into the comparison trap We often get caught up in the great race where we fall into this comparison trap when we weigh up and compare ourselves to others. But what would happen to our performance if we didn’t get so caught up in always trying to win? Competition […]
How to get a clear Mind
How do you get a clear mind? It’s not something you actively do, it’s something that happens generally speaking in one of two ways: 1. In a flash moment or 2. By cultivating your inside-out understanding of how life works. Flash Moments Flash moments happen to us as human beings all the time. This […]
When I can be okay with who I am, I can be 100% there for you
One of my clients, let’s call him Dave when he first started coming to me was always very nervous about his meetings that he was called into to at work. He was always trying to plan everything out of what he was going to say and was always worried about how he would rate by […]
How to solve problems without all the angst and pain
At this time of the year, we often look back with many thoughts on our mind. Here’s how it often works with an untrained mind. I have a problem. I think about a solution. It eludes me. So I think harder and harder about a solution. The problem becomes bigger and bigger, the solution […]