The Paradox of Results
The Paradox of Results The paradox of results is that the less attached you are to the outcome, the higher the chance you have of fulfilling on it. And that’s at the heart of why the less the results matter to you, the easier it is to create them and why understanding the principles behind […]
Even If you don’t forgive it is still possible to find peace and happpiness
Happiness without forgiveness I know it sounds unusual, but you can find happiness even when you don’t always forgive. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that you should never forgive but there are certain cases where even if you’re not prepared to forgive you can still find freedom and happiness. Just because someone […]
Falling into the misunderstanding of where feelings come from
If we fall into the misunderstanding that our agitated feelings are caused by other people, then we’re more likely to experience resentment, hostility and have other relationship problems. Today I sit in awe when I see this happen because it’s one of the world’s greatest and believable lies we all fall in and out of all the […]
When you let go you let in
It’s just a bunch of thoughts When we realize that all we are holding onto in our mind is just a bunch of thoughts, it becomes much easier to let go of them. When this happens, we become a receptacle for the new and the fresh. Endless possibilities arise when you let go of the […]
Great expectations can lead to great limitations in any relationship
Great expectations are not always so great Great expectations are not so great when we are overly attached and so committed to them. When I operate with the expectation that you have to do something to make me happy, it’s often a recipe for disaster because you’re not always going to do it exactly […]
Happiness for no reason
Happiness for no reason I’ll never forget what happened a short while after learning the principles behind a clear mind; It was an early morning around December 2014 and I was sitting in my office all alone and getting things ready on my computer for my work day and then all of a sudden, I just […]
The Missing Piece in Relationships
Why is it that couples break up? Because they’re unhappy together. Well, you might be thinking, “great point Aron, and how insightful is this that I should even bother with this post?” The incorrect assumption is that your partner is supposed to make you happy and then you’ll both live happily ever after. […]
Mistakes don’t define you they refine you
The pain of the past Mistakes are only carried through time via a thought Mistakes can often paralyze us in moving forward with our lives but it doesnt have to be that way when we realize that the pain of the past mistakes is only carried through time into my present experience via a thought. […]
Intimacy
INTIMACY – Into me see – To connect with another person, you really need to be able to see into me, and I have to be able to see into you. You have to look into where they are and focus completely on them, putting your own personal agendas on the side. Seeing DeeplyWhat does […]
The Great race where we fall into the comparison trap
The Great Race where we fall into the comparison trap We often get caught up in the great race where we fall into this comparison trap when we weigh up and compare ourselves to others. But what would happen to our performance if we didn’t get so caught up in always trying to win? Competition […]